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Some of us say we do so as not to seem clingy, or be written off as a possessive psycho. The problem with this new world order is that we’ve forgotten to treat everyone like a living, breathing human being. And we are absolutely in over our head with the options. Take it from me, you’ll live to rue the day you ever went with limitless options at the boyfriend buffet, and giving it a shot with someone you may or may not have feelings for.

Even several years after I’ve gone on dates with men, I still get the odd text or email from them.

You don’t need to be a pop psychologist to figure out just why this is so spectacularly effective.

When fragile egos are involved, as they invariably are when we date, we’ll take anything for a boost.

The whole seeing-multiple-people-until-someone-brings-up-exclusivity is something we appear to be fine with.

But for the Irish race, this is too newfangled a concept for us to be truly good at it yet.

The gist was always depressingly the same: girl meets boy. Girl even laughs at boy’s jokes, making her think there may be home there in the future. A Thing only curable with heartbreak, litres of ice cream and other break-up behaviours like bawling at an episode of Fair City.

Go on a lukewarm date with an American, and he’ll shake your hand and say something nice and polite. Why risk creating more collateral damage than is strictly necessary?Some apologise for disappearing into thin air, expressing remorse that they didn’t play nicer (one in particular offered the following explanation, as though it were meant to make things all better: “It’s just that I’m a bit light in the cojones department.” Jog on, bro).Others are more barefaced with that, knowing that in times past, their single-word text (‘’Sup’) was like a flame to my helpless, idiotic moth.But surely you realise that the other person — trapped in your holding pattern, for better or worse — believes that they’re the ones at fault? This taps into people’s worst fears of abandonment.Ultimately, it will make them a worse partner in the long run, because the poor schmuck that comes after you is going to have to bore his sorry way through more layers of hostility, issues and self-protection.

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